魚與熊掌

我成功獲得之前提到的銀行職位了！ 現在我有兩份難以抉擇的工作。

Mortgage/RE Broker
Private/small firm
Fremont*
5 miles away from home*
10 minutes local*
No benefit
No 401k
Old/small office
Colleagues age group 35+
Exempt salary + “commission per closing”**
No potential/advancement

Bank – Commercial Lending
Publicly trade bank*
Santa Clara
20 miles away from home
45-60 minutes traffic
Medical/dental/vision benefit*
401k*
New/big office*
Colleagues age group 25+*
Non-exempt salary
Full of potential/advancement*

一方面我想建立一份專業，雄心壯志；令一方面又只想擁有賺錢買花帶的工作，無優無慮。我有那份烈火雄心嗎？我準備好學習的心情嗎？魚與熊掌不可兼得...怎麼辨呢？